The thing is, he can like you but not want to be in a serious relationship with you. This is a tough skill to learn, but it’s very important and can save you from endless heartache.The first question most women ask after a breakup is: can I get my ex back?
If you get back together just because you miss him, you’re in serious danger of getting into an endless on/off cycle, driven entirely on emotions, and you could waste years of your life.
Assuming it is a good idea to try to get him back, is it even possible? [Click here to keep reading…] Love doesn’t usually just evaporate because you broke up.
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It’s hard to admit when a guy isn’t serious about you, especially when you really like him.
when his behavior is actually perfectly normal or caused by something totally unrelated to his feelings for her.
The problem is that panicking can create a problem where there wasn’t one in the first place.
Even worse, if he is withdrawing you don’t know why, let alone what you should do about it.
Often, a woman prematurely panics when she thinks a guy is pulling away and assumes it means he’s lost interest in her …
Maybe his parents had a nasty divorce when he was a kid, maybe he just went through a nasty divorce himself, maybe he’s focused solely on work right now, maybe he has deeply rooted emotional issues that never got dealt with, maybe he’s been hurt one too many times before.
No matter what the issue, you can’t fix it for him. He can’t be your little pet project and you are not his therapist. You might think if you just stick it out and love him hard enough he’ll come around and change his mind. Every situation is different and it’s up to you to assess the situation and decide what the best move is.
Yes, sometimes a breakup happens because one or both partners fell out of love (the classic, I love you but I’m not in love with you scenario), but more often people break up not because they don’t love each other, but because that love just wasn’t enough and they couldn’t make it work.